Thursday, November 11, 2021

Remembrance Day, November 11, 2021

 It is just mind blowing to think of what veterans have done for the rest of us so we can be free and have a democracy.

However, it's vital that we never forget so we don't blow up our democracy by listening to internet crap made up by people who do not use critical thinking. I remember seeing a politician who I will not name at the big V-Day Celebrations in France a couple of years back, with all of these old veterans sitting in their wheelchairs in the rain listening to his selfish, narcissistic crap. I'd never seen a more vulgar and disrespectful scene. Knowing the horrors, the smells of dead bodies, the violence, the loss, the starvation they endured so we could all sit in the comfort of our homes, eating food that has not been rationed is truly something to not be taken for granted.
However, democracy, even in Canada is extremely fragile right now. Already you've got some people not accepting the results of a recent election - a despicable move from the old he who shall not be named playbook. Nevertheless, YOU contribute to the end of all that our vets fought for and the comfort of our democracy if you perpetuate lies and conspiracies. It's that simple. Most of what is dividing us comes from evil minds paid to stoke our fears and having a laugh at how gullible we can be. Their job is to divide so so they can dismantle our democracy little by little. Remembrance Day is a very good time to seriously think about these things and check ourselves. Trust me, forethought will spare afterthought.

Monday, June 7, 2021

Savoring Your Abundant Life

 My husband paid the most beautiful tribute to me on my 54th birthday - acknowledging how it's not always been easy being married to a firefighter but how much he loves and appreciates all that I do for him and our family - how much he loves me.  Today I walked past our rose bushes and stopped.  Their beauty was truly beyond measure and their fragrance completely intoxicating.  As I took a deeper look into the beauty of the roses, I recounted the day we planted those bushes.  Much like a life.  We plant a house, we plant a family, we plant hope for our marriage and we plant a vision for our life together. Today those roses made me stop and admire my life, my family and my marriage.  These were our roses.  We intentionally planted them.  Roses are like life - beautiful and thorny!  To get those beautiful roses to bloom, you've got to cut back and cut off what no longer grows, what no longer brings life.  And then you wait, after pruning, for the blooms.  Ah, you think, I'm glad we worked through that and got through that.  Look what we have now!  Life is a rose, is a rose is a rose!  So are our relationships.  We've been married nearly 27 years and we are in love.  It takes work getting there and those thorns can really tear you apart, but the roses will come and they are splendid. XOXO


Friday, January 15, 2021

Happy New Year!!!

 Hey, Happy New Year!!  It's January 15th! You may have made resolutions and you may not have.

Here's the thing, it's only January! Making new habits and achieving your goals takes time. Be patient and be kind to yourself. Simply begin again...and then again and again.
Take notes of your better days and your not great ones too. Practicing good habits consistently requires setting up your environment and your mind-set for success. On the days I lunge into the "news" without centering myself first, I find myself feeling disconnected and "unmagical." On the days I wake up to some good music, do some writing and stretching, set my intention and count my blessings, I feel like a million bucks all day. We are half way through the month and it's Friday!
Why not review the past two weeks and see what habits you need to incorporate or eliminate. Make your list.
Have a wonderful weekend everyone! XOXO